by Janet on July 27, 2010
Do you shy away from stating the negative with EFT? Afraid you’re reinforcing the problem? That’s what happened with a client last week. We started tapping and her anxiety level went up instead of down. Turned out she was afraid she would make her worries permanent by saying them out loud. And she’s not the [...]
by Janet on July 18, 2010
Since I’ve been writing about getting away from blaming yourself, I thought it might be good to offer ideas of what to do instead. What’s the flip side of self-blame? According to the thesaurus, the opposite of blame is applaud, commend, praise, and thank. So how can you do that for yourself? Well, here’s one [...]
by Janet on June 29, 2010
We’re encouraged to take personal responsibility to empower ourselves. It does feel good, doesn’t it? I admit it can be scary, but the strength of it feels great. When I’m taking responsibility for my life and there’s a problem, I’m in charge of the solution. It’s my choice. Since I like being in charge, that’s [...]
by Janet on September 16, 2009
You should be done with that by now! Ever tell yourself that? Most of us do at one time or another. Sometimes it’s because we’ve been procrastinating. Or maybe we started something without the skills or information we really need to get it done. How It Shows Up I hear different versions of this from [...]
by Janet on September 13, 2009
Sometimes when you tap you don’t make much progress with releasing your issue. There’s some inner resistance to letting go. In EFT jargon, the resistance is called a reversal or energy reversal. When you tap, the energy is not going in the direction you want (releasing), but is stuck in reverse (holding on). What It [...]
by Janet on August 24, 2009
Are you passionate about what you do? A spirit-centered entrepreneur who has given your soul to your business? Then it’s time to take it back! Seriously. There’s a misconception that causes problems for many business owners – and artists and performers, too. It’s this: If I love what I’m doing, I need to give it [...]
by Janet on August 17, 2009
Making a powerful commitment includes burning bridges – eliminating the paths of retreat. Yikes! Maybe that sounds a little drastic to you. But think about it: There’s a bridge behind you that leads back to where you came from. Maybe there’s a part of you saying , “Well, if this doesn’t work out, I can [...]
by Janet on August 6, 2009
You know how it can all just be too much sometimes? You don’t know where to start. Or you think you’ll never get it all done. Perfect time to tap! Keep It Simple You can feel SO much better really quickly by keeping it simple. Yes – it’s a great thing to get to the [...]
by Janet on July 27, 2009
Sometimes clients say, “I just know something happened that’s connected to this current issue, but I can’t remember what it was.” Has that ever happened to you? I know it can be frustrating. But you can still use EFT to help yourself — whether you remember or not. Why Don’t You Remember? You can really [...]
by Janet on July 14, 2009
Did you know that you can use EFT to help your pets? It’s very effective and fast and can bring great relief to your animals AND your checkbook. Essential: First Calm Yourself Unless it’s such an emergency that there’s no time to do this, take a minute to use EFT on yourself first. Clear (or [...]